What is the Egen vs Teto quiz?

The same problem can invite very different responses.

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What does it explore?

When a friend has a problem, do you listen for their feelings first or look for a way forward? This quiz borrows the online EGEN/TETO meme for a light comparison of everyday reactions.

How to play

1. Choose your response to 12 everyday situations. Allow about 2 minutes.
2. You can revisit earlier questions and change your answers. Your result appears after the final answer.
3. Read the result with a friend and talk about the responses you each find helpful.

Two response styles

Egen-leaning choices

You chose more responses that check feelings and the mood first. After offering empathy, try asking: “How can I help?”

Teto-leaning choices

You chose more responses that organize the situation and look for action. Before offering a solution, try asking: “Would you like me to listen first?”

How to read the result

People use both empathy and practical solutions. This is not a measure of fixed personality, gender traits, hormone levels, career fit or relationship success. Neither style is the correct or better one.

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